You should always start a Grief UA character with the
maximum amount of FOCUS and SELF as possible to help with
your debuffing and Magic Defense. If you plan to play
this character to level 100, you may wish to start with
100 Strength, 100 Focus, 100 Self. You will still be able
to get your Unarmed to around 405 self buffed at this
level. The 40 points of Coordination gives you an extra
10 points of Unarmed Combat.
Post 40 you get to choose from either Lockpick @ 70,
Leadership @ 60 or Melee Defense @ 90.